Booty Call – What Feminism Has Reduced Women To

Many men are still asking young women out, going on dinner dates, calling, and adhering to the other “gentlemanly” rules established for them in a much older age and still outwardly pined for by certain female critics. What they’re finding is that young women are becoming less and less responsive to this behavior—the more serious the men get, the more distant the girls begin to make themselves, ostensibly fearing for their “independence”.

Given such a reality, what is the appropriate male response?

Quit going on dinner dates. Quit asking girls out in a formal manner. Don’t call. Cease all manner of “gentlemanly” behavior you may have learned as a child via your parents or the Disney Channel. Replace dinners and other traditional dates with bar/pong dates, and allow late night “booty-call” texts to supplant phone calls and traditional methods of asking a girl out. In short, do less. (Source)

Feminism…just keeps on destroying.

6 thoughts on “Booty Call – What Feminism Has Reduced Women To

  1. This article was written by a man from a magazine that I noticed has a title “hot erotica ” at the top, right hand corner. HMMMM, sounds really gentlemanly to me.

    Sorry, being a female I find this article full of the usual, blame the women nonsense, or of course the evil feminists. How dare men who know nothing about womens’ hearts come to the one dimensional so trendy and growing conclusion of the usual “blame the women” but in the newer version it is- blame the feminists. Sorry men, God says differently, but you do not want to hear it.And, He calls men to become real men according to Him and THEN expect to see women feel free to be the real women they would be only too happy to be. Women do not need much just a man who is like the model that God expects him to be which is: A real man is a lover, a great and wonderful lover, who follows God’s Way of love and not the world’s way.
    He is God-centred and never self-centred. He is gentle and never violent. He is peaceful and never angry. He is kind and never mean-hearted. He is firm and never controlling. He is just and never unfair. He is available and never absent. He is humble and never proud. He is is faithful and never adulterous. He is a promise- keeper and not a renegade. If married, he is a husband and never a bachelor. And he is a father in accordance with God the Father. Above all he is a living model of Jesus Christ.
    If we are to look at the battle of the sexes purely from a secular point of view leaving God out than this is what we have although it is still true to a certain degree, but not completely because neither the “evil”feminist scenario that people like to call on to blame the for the worlds ills, when it comes to relationships, nor the argument of the feminists or women is complete because both do not acknowledge the great need to surrender to God for His Healing and to seek to love one another in their own brokenness and admit that both men and women need healing. Here then is the scenario and the Truth.

    If women began feeling that their true womanhood was not enough, then do not blame women, start with the fact that men were not men, were leaving the women who God gave them as gifts in the first place to treat as the priceless daughters which they are to Him who made them as close to His Heart as possible, and that many men treated them as Edith Bunkers’, were abusive not only physically, but emotionally, verbally, and mentally controlling all aspects of the relationship in a Rambo-type domineering style. not to mention left them for younger women , who could be their daughters or even grand daughters. How can you expect girls and women to trust men who for the most part lie to them en masse just to use them then throw them away like yesterday’s trash or continue on, lying to them, and crushing and trampling over the hearts of women who were only too willing to have a real man protect her and make feel loved and secure, and these same”husbands” are now with females young enough to be their their daughters, when their male menopause set in and they needed their egos bolstered by being reminded that young women who they never really valued in the way that God wanted them to in the first place were, somehow in their sick minds a fine substitute for the “wife” he wants that is until she grows a little older and wiser one would hope, but sorry for this renegade ALSO is just one of those pesky types who yearn for real love, darn it, and needs to be replaced , by yet another version of his fantasy woman who is not real or human in any real and certainly in his eyes the priceless gift she is to God as well as being loved by Him (as he is also,but that for later).

    There are now men who also write such such one dimensional articles , and we have perhaps have even more women hating other women , again being deceived but this time they are bashing feminists rooting alongside the men who still hate women at some level, and instead of, as Deacon Bob McDonald said and He follows God, he would almost swear that if men started acting like the men God called them to be feminism would disappear off the face of the earth.

    Interestingly enough , too bad this man in his “research” never interviewed all the single mothers and girls who were threatened and called four letter words such as c—and treated like complete objects and were told that they better not have needs and how dare them depend on men for anything and just sat around complaining about any responsibility that God expects of them as men , and to grow up in the first place, and stop hiding behind their victim crap when the truth is they refuse to submit to God’s call to die to self and be like Jesus to their wives , and to treat girls and or women with respect.
    As far as this “good old days” talk I am afraid feminism did not come about because men were so respectful “back then “but rather the opposite. Study history, most men and a lot of confused women now who even hate other women in the name of Christianity even, labeling their own sisters, have not a clue about a woman’s heart and why and what drives their hearts to feel they have to seek from other females what men refuse to give them, which is the qualities God demands of them in relationship with His daughters.

    Here paraphrased but not changed, is what Deacon Bob Mcdonald has to say from “The Catholic Family:Image and Likeness of God in a chapter titled Relationships: Woman Wounded; Man Maimed, as well as some excerpts from 2 other chapters, from same book:
    The great majority of men today do not have a clue what it means to be a real man. They have been raised by broken fathers, and so their masculine image is distorted by their own inadequate fathering experience. Dad was never really present to them. He was away at work all the time, or he was drunk most of the time, or he was caught up in his own selfish pursuits. He was emotionally a thousand miles away, and even when he was close, he likely indulged in anger, physical beatings, of his wife and or children or relentless put downs of same. The sons model after dear dad. Because the father desperately wants his father’s love and admiration he either imitates dad and becomes another bully or seeks his father’s love in other men and commits himself to a homosexual lifestyle, trapped in a prison of gender confusion. Other develop a crushing sense of worthlessness and live in fear of everyone around them. Men turn to other heroes, and these are pale imitations of the ones they need to model themselves after, Jesus, St. Joseph and The Holy Spirit. So often they seek to model themselves after another dysfunctional man, such as Rambo the killer, James Bond the womanizer, or Joe Big Bucks, the ruthless business man. If we do not have a father we invent one, the need for fathering is
    that great. The tragedy is that such men are truly miserable and become more and more neurotic, unable to understand why their wives become unhappy too. They fail to make the connection between their own behavior and the disobedience of their children, and why when their children become powerful teenagers, they turn to drugs, alcohol sexual pleasure and crime and these same men blame everything and everyone else but themselves. And if they ever suspected for a moment they were dysfunctional, they would never seek help because that in their minds is a sign of weakness, and these “real” men can never admit to weakness.
    He says “no wonder there is feminism in today’s world. No wonder women are lashing out at men who are abusing them. No wonder more and more women are turning to each other for love and opting for lesbian relationships, given the risks they run in seeking true love from men. God’s order is being broken down, and God’s design for men is being mutilated which means they must discover what God intended them to be. In fact ,I would hazard a prediction right now. If men will turn around and become obedient to God’s vision of who they are, not only will men become real men, but feminism will disappear from the face of the earth. It will simply become obsolete.
    Woman is the gifted mystery of God’s loving creation. She does not need to be a Priest. She is already the “silent priestess of new life, just as Mary was the “silent” priestess who brought Jesus to us. She is made for love. She is our love teacher, the human archetype of love, the indispensable repository of the love memories of the race. Destroy her and we destroy love on the face of the earth. We fail her, when we do not treasure her for herself, protect her in birth-giving, or provide for her mothering. Only she can teach children how to love. Do we prostrate ourselves at the altar of God in gratitude and thanksgiving for the gift of such a jewel?Only a man who perceives the truth of the mystery can do so, and he is as rare today as he was yesterday.
    Many women today are deeply damaged. If they escape being aborted, they face being rejected, not just because they are human, which is bad enough, but because they are female. Un-nurtured and un-cherished, they are puzzled and devastated by their parents; brokeness. Violence is perpetrated upon them. They are sometimes sexually invaded as little children, deeply damaged by the self-hatred of their raging fathers or brothers and undefended by their own mothers, who so often are conspirators of silence. Thus abandoned and violated they
    grown into caricatures of womanhood. They become sleepwalkers in a nightmare, self-loathing and worst of all, death-dealing deniers of new life. Abortion is a lot easier for a woman whose precious femininity has been violated as a child. Violence begets violence. The damaged become the damagers and so impervious to love, both in giving it and receiving it. As a child she craves her father’s love, but perceives that somehow by his rejection and abuse of her and her need for his love that she is flawed and not worthy of it. So she goes through life searching endlessly trying to fulfill this deepest of needs. She either punishes herself for her own unworthiness or punishes her father in an endless rejection of all men, She many even embrace the counterfeit love of other women since a pretend love is better then the terror of emptiness.
    Satan smiles as He has achieved just what he set out to do, have men blaming women as the evil seductress or just all around one to blame so he can remain a victim and she no longer trusts men because she sees him as the devil, full of empty promises and lies and not someone she can trust or depend on, except for heartbreak.

    The answer, both men and women have to surrender to God’s Will and order for themselves individually as separate but equal players in the game and surrender to each other and hold one another in love understanding that it is only this that will win the battle never categorizing the other in tidy little compartments to fit ones’ narrow, tunnel vision of life.

    God gives us everything we need to know. God whispers to us
    men and women “You are both wounded by lack of love, but I can heal you”. This lack of love is sin, and we sin when we blame each other. We must return to God and return to loving one anothers’ woundedness just as God loves us even in our deepeds wounds, desiring to heal us by His love. We too can share in this by learning what it means to be fully woman and fully man. Woman-love plus man-love equal God-love. We are made in Gods image and likeness but if the sexes remain divided, it is only half an image. We both need the complementarity of the other in order to be made whole.

    Finally I will continue paraphrasing Dr. Mcdonald by saying feminism is never wrong when it asks for healing, but becomes terribly disordered when all it does is point the finger at men, remaining blind to woman’s own need for healing. We ALL are in need for healing.
    Thank You Father God, Jesus Christ, and Holy Ghost
    and Help us and Heal us through the Intercession of Our Beloved, Blessed Virgin and Mother and Queen Mary.

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